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The number seven seems to be an auspicious number throughout many cultures and no less so for Iraqis. Traditionally, their weddings would consist of seven steps and rituals, today some of these steps can merge. They also share many traditions with their Iranian neighbours, namely the ‘bride’s table’ or ‘Mez al Sayed’ in Arabic and ‘Sofreh-ye Aghd’ in Persian. I was fascinated to learn of unique customs practiced during their celebrations. Mashaya & Sharbet Men from the groom’s family go to meet the men on the bride’s side with a formal marriage proposal. The bride-to-be is asked formally by her father if she will accept the offer of marriage. Once she agrees the Fatiha is read and then the families celebrate by sharing ‘sharbet’ which is a delicious fruit coridal often flavoured with rose water and pomegranate. Turkish coffee and dessert is also served. Engagement The engagement requires an exchange of rings for each - usually gold for the woman and silver for the man